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Hello and welcome back! Coming at you straight away with 10 little things you can do to give in little kicks of self-care and self-love. Some are quite personal but you can try them out and share with me your thoughts about it. This might not be for everyone but I'm still excited for the ones who can relate. Let's get started! 1 . Watch a movie alone. Like, literally alone. No social media posts, no telling a bunch of people that you're going to watch a movie alone, now whatever. It makes the experience private and special. 2.  Listen to Ted Talks. You're learning + getting inspiration. It's a win-win situation. 3 . Listen to a podcast that talks about things you genuinely care about. Currently, I'm listening to The Minimalists podcast by Ryan Nicodemus and Joshua Fields Millburn. 4 . When you're travelling home from work and have the chance to see the sky as you walk to your bus stop or any terminal or anytime you have the chance to lo...

 I've decided to make the month of June all about self-care and self-love and to start if off, let me share with you my personal journey with trying to love myself. This is a bit lengthy so just a heads up. But if you can read until the end, let me know. Thanks again for being here, dear reader. I've heard it all.  "You could be a blogger. Just not a fashion blogger because you're not skinny enough." "Maybe if you were just more quiet, guys would like you." "You're such a mess." "You cheeks are too big." "Your nose spread out too much when you laugh." "You're charming. In a funny way." "You only look good in pictures." "Magaling ka kasing umanggulo" (You reaaalllyy know your angles.) I never felt that I was different until people made me realize that being the chubby friend , the "noisy" friend, the too-clingy friend was wrong...